Bossy

Okay so this is gonna touch some nerves of some people that I know and might just get my ass kicked. I just want to point out that I am entitled to my personal opinion and I am giving it. Don't like it? Let me know. I'll take it into consideration. Okay on to what I wanted to talk about...bosses. When I hear the word boss, I think of a mutha fucka that hires and fires people. Somebody that makes the schedule and signs off on checks for other mutha fuckas. Somebody that works hard for what they earn, no matter how they earn it but have other people earning or just simply working up under them. Bosses. If you don't have a fucken job, stop calling yourself a boss. If you have no source of income whatsoever, don't even think about calling yourself a boss. If you call the shots of nothing, you not a boss period. Quit screaming you a fucken boss like you in a damn music video and about to become that next big thing. It ain't fucking happening dude. This goes for everybody. I am so sick of females talking about they are boss bitches but can't don't work or have a side hustle or nothing. And no broke ass hoe solely living off somebody else don't make you a boss. Get yo supposed to be grown ass up and make your own fucken money. That's something bosses do. Fellas, popping bottles and chasing these hoes with your rent and bill money don't make you a boss. It makes you stupid. Get yo mind right. Want to live like Rick Ross still having your keys taken by ya mama cuz you didn't take the trash out. What boss you know lives like that? There are 15 year olds that run their own side hustles. They can say they're bosses more than yo broke ass. Sound like you need to make some moves shawty. I mean do you really think you a boss for real? Oh my bad. You living through a song. Here, let me help you out: in reality, you a regular mutha fucka that sits on yo ass and waits for the next mutha fucka to make something happen for you. Don't work. Don't grind. Dont even offer a service or product to sell. Just lazy. Sorry to inform you that your "boss" life don't exist, but I guess that person that is fucking you is giving you some glimmer of hope that it is. End that shit please. I know I might be going off the deep end with this one, but there are so called adults that have this kind of mentality. It fucks with my sanity. Ugh what the fuck man? Until you are making boss moves or have some sort of boss qualities, don't ever think you deserve to call yourself a boss. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Haha okay. Hey man...I'm just saying...

The Assumption of One and Only

You're single. You meet this other single person. Y'all chit for a little while and then you decide that you are okay with this person so y'all exchange numbers. The conversation continues, and y'all discover that y'all are on the same page with what you want. At some point you decide to date. On date number three, you find out you are not the only one he/she is dating. You are pissed. You want to end the dating and still just be cool with the person. He/she didn't lie to you and tell you that you were the only one. You just assumed it. Guess what? You just created a common personal problem. Here comes the explanation. You didn't ask if this person was dating other people. You didn't inquire if this person was being monogamous with this special request in change to y'all relationship with one another. You just figured that this person have you and only you in his/her life like that. Why would you do that crazy shit? First of all, you should have asked this person do he/she intend to date other people. Second of all, you have to remember that this person is single and has no obligation to you. Thirdly, you can't expect this person to give up information you don't ask for. Finally, don't accuse him/her of lying of they haven't said shit. It ain't the same. There is an argument about that last one, but I'm staying on topic so fuck all that. Anywho, single people have the right to date and fuck and befriend and romance and do whatever with whoever they want. You can't expect this person to just be all into you if its not discussed like that. The understanding has to be put there: a single person can do what they want to do. Don't make yourself the limitation. If y'all are just fucking, don't assume that you are the only one. Oh hell nah. Don't ever assume you aren't the only one either when it comes to getting down with the get down. There are some that date and fuck just one person at a time, but don't just assume that person is you or the person you are interested in is that type of person. Don't wanna date someone dating others? Then don't. Don't wanna fuck a person fucking others? Then don't. It is as simple as that. Don't get mad if you find yourself to be in somebody's circle and didn't inquire on how they live life and get down. No matter how you chose to fuck with this person, you did it without research. Fumble. By the way, they don't have to tell you shit and they damn sho don't have to tell you the truth. Please remember these two statements when you decide to ask them about everything. Communication is key, and without some sort of communication, you will fall flat on your ass as you decide to put yourself in this kind of situation. All you had to do was ask. If he/she don't wanna answer your question, don't just assume he/she is being secretive and don't wanna say nothing. Maybe he or she thinks it is none of your fucken business and for you to stay in your lane. If this is voiced to you in this way, respect their honesty and know you have just been thrown a red flag. Oh and to all you mutha fuckas that think because you fucking or dating you in a relationship with this person, you are horribly mistaken and need to re-evaluate some shit cuz its something that only you know and are convinced of but this person is not. Under no circumstances should a person assume he or she is in a relationship with another person without this being discussed and agreed upon. I had a friend tell me about some bitch that assumed they was in a relationship because they would fuck. The only reason she got to spend the night was because she rides the bus and she had to wait to the morning to get home. Chick didn't know that we don't love these hoes. You can't just put yourself in that kind of situation with somebody and think they are just gonna agree to it. "Oh yeah baby since you are my woman..." "oh I'm your woman huh? Yeah I guess that's cool..." Not even in movies bruh. That fantasy is straight bullshit in a pretend world. Fuck were you thinking? When involving your feelings and heart, you can't assume anything. You gotta discuss, clarify, and agree. Its that simple. Otherwise you gonna be singing that men/women ain't shit song and dance yo ass right into the world of you crazy mutha fucka land where everybody tells you how you done lost your damn mind for thinking that it was just you and that there was more than what it was. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Well somebody does. Hey man...I'm just saying...

One Sided Investments

Okay, after a six month hiatus, I am back people. Yes ladies and gentlemen, niggas and niggettes, I am back. The crowd goes wild...yaaay! Okay seriously, I wanted to say something about a subject people talk about and, of course, I had a conversation about earlier. Let's start with the story that got me on this topic in the first place. So my best friend and I was talking about chicks and whatnot. He proceeds to start talking about this chick he done hit right? Well he says to me, "I think she trying to be my girl." My next actions: Smacks forehead. Looks up. Says "seriously?" Yeah I did that. Why do I have a problem with this? She is about to get her feelings hurt, and the only person to blame is herself. Do I give a fuck? No. I am fresh out of those and don't plan to get anymore ever. Here's the thing. All that "oh we should be together shit" when y'all just fucking...yeah don't do that. The only time I see how feelings can get caught up in it is when you are getting special treatment, and no that don't include you getting picked up instead of riding the bus. Just because a mutha fucka decided you didn't have to walk that five minutes from the bus stop to his house don't mean he care about you any more than he did before. When the only thing that has been established between you two is that y'all gonna fuck, where does all this feelings shit come from? Men, you think only women do it? Hahahaha WRONG! Y'all do that shit too. "I'm saying though Keshia why won't you be my girl?" Fool I don't like you like that! Please! Loving these hoes? Yeah I ain't about that life. You gotta be doing some extra special shit for me to get that deep in it. If you gonna start investing your feelings into shit, at least make sure that that y'all are having more conversations other than when the next time you coming through to give up some ass. Yeah that's all you are there for and that is the only relationship you have decided to have with this person, so please dont do all that extra shit when you get shut down. I ain't saying it gonna work. I'm saying that 99% of the time you gonna be the only mutha fucka to feel that way if the only interaction y'all have is the five minutes it takes for you to set up a fuck session and the actual fuck session itself. If y'all have been getting it on for about six months and you don't know this mutha fucka full name and birthday, you will never be his/her significant other. Nah that ain't happening. I'll do you one better. If he/she does not ever mentions anything about y'all hanging out or chilling with each other outside of fucking, not even to go as far as to ask you what you doing with the rest of your day, you can definitely forget about ever getting this person to move things in a different direction. Being a friend is one thing, but when there is a strict put your clothes on and leave policy between y'all after y'all done doing the do, why would you want to be with this person? This one dude thought I had feelings for him after a couple of years of this song and dance. Lmao boy he is too stupid. If it has already been established that all y'all gonna do is have sexual intercourse with each other, leave ya feelings alone. They don't deserve to get hurt because you had some ridiculous notion that you could change this person and how they feel about this situation. Nah. Never that. When its just sex involved, that's all it needs to be. Don't think I know what I'm talking about. Maybe I don't. Hey man...I'm just saying...

And I'm Still a Wrestling Fan

A fact about the author of these posts: I have been a fan of wrestling since the age of 9. Yes I am talking about WWF/E, TNA, Ring of Honor, NWA, etc. I also love traditional style wrestling like they do in the Olympics. Having been a fan for so long, I get questions about a lot of things concerning the sport. Where is such and such? Why has it changed so much? Does such and such still come on? I answer them and keep it moving. One question I hate: "you know its fake right?" Let me explain something to you: I am fully aware and have the common knowledge that what I am watching is not real. I am aware that what I am watching is like a very violent soap opera. Please don't ask me or tell me this shit like I just started watching Raw and Impact yesterday. Seriously I can't stand that shit. Oh and only the storylines and some of the moves are fake. Those injuries and some of the moves in the ring are definitely real. Getting medical clearance to wrestle? Real. The problems backstage and off camera? Real. Want a good look into wrestling from a real point of view? Watch Beyond the Mat and Card Subject to Change. Read a book by a wrestler. Watch a documentary about a wrestler. Know your shit before you step to me with that "wrestling is fake" bullshit. I really do get sick of hearing. I ain't stupid and I ain't gonna stop watching. What is really the fucken point of you telling me that? I mean shut the fuck up. Damn! Oh and if wrestling is so fake, why the fuck do you know more about the last show than I do? Yeah. Hush. What I am saying is this: this is one of the most interesting things there is to me. Don't diss my shit because that "reality" show you was watching last week ain't that real itself. If you want to know if I know about something that I have been watching for 16 years of my life, the answer is yes. Stop asking me that shit. Please. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

The Use of Names

One of the things that are overlooked by some people is the use of names. What do I mean? When someone introduce his or her self, he or she uses the name in which he or she wants to be called. This is the tag in which he or she gives oneself for others, whether it is a nickname or the real first name or a fake name that is used for safety reasons. At work, the use of names depends on the type of work being done. For example, everyone at my job calls each other by our last names. Just how it is. When I was working for the university I went to, everybody called each other by our first names. Teachers asked what name we preferred. So on, so forth. Why am I writing this? Because some people feel they have the right to call people whatever they want. Some people read my name off my nametag and call me by my first name. I'm fine with that until you start cracking jokes and making my name what you want it. Mutha fucka who are you? I don't know you like that. Don't call me nothing I don't approve you to call me by, and yes that includes my first name. For those that read this and don't know what my name is, it's Keshia. No this is not a joke. This is my given and legal first name and you can only imagine the shit I hear when some people learn that shit. I will put it out there: don't make up some bullshit nickname I don't like or call me what you want. If I give you a name to call me by, use it. The name thing varies upon how close we are and what out relationship is to each other. Also don't get mad at me when I call you by the name that you have given me to call you by. If you introduce yourself to be as Douchebag McGhee, that's what the fuck I am gonna call you. Give me the same common courtsey. If you want to call me something different I will let you know if I approve or not. If I don't like it, please note that I will be thoroughly pissed every time you call me that shit. If you introduce yourself to me by using your first name, don't get mad when I don't call you by your nickname. If your nickname is fucked up, don't get mad when I call you by something I feel comfortable saying. C'mon now. change that shit! Oh and to those that make up these stupid ass names on social media, please stop that shit. No one likes it and it makes you look stupid. An example? Ron heaboutdatlife Smith. Really dude? Kill yourself. Just know that one name I don't go by: KeeKee. Don't have nothing against anybody that do, but I personally don't like being called that shit. Don't fucken do it! If I am at work, you are to call me by my last name unless I say that you can call me by my first. This construction had the audacity to call me by my first name. Dude, you don't fucken know me like that. We ain't cool. Don't do that. I have issues with this because a name is the way you are identified and I don't want my shit to be mistaken or misused. You have been warned. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

One Drink Dont Make Me Yours

Being at Club 426 (I stay in the A) last night reintroduced me to a world that I have become unfamiliar with. The dancing? I danced all night. The music? Awesome. The people? Live. The men? Thirsty. The women? Hoochie but just as live. It was a wonderful night. I had this one dude that was trying to take me home with him. Nah dog. I'm good. Don't even know you like that and I leave with who I came with. He walked off. I kept dancing and enjoying myself. Now the next dude is somewhat the inspiration for this blog post. Yes the gesture of a man buying a woman a drink is nice, but fellas, what I want you to understand is that if you offer to buy a woman a drink, it does not mean she is obligated to give you anything. Another dance, a date, some conversation, nothing. She ain't gotta do shit for you. If she is a random person who you never met in life, the chances of you getting anything out of her after buying that $8 cranberry juice and vodka or that $3 bottle of water is slim to none. Just letting you know that spending money don't entitle you to shit. I ain't yo girl. I'm not yo wife. I ain't the mother of yo kids. I don't sign yo checks or make your money. What the fuck makes you think that buying me a drink will get me to buss it open? Whoa dude. Let me stop laughing at yo ridiculous ass for thinking that I am that simple. Lost yo fucken mind along with yo common sense. To the females that is that simple to buss down, thank you for creating this mindset for bitch niggas and stalkers to love by. No I am not talking to the ones that have accepted a drink. Ain't nothing wrong with saying yes to free shit. I am talking to the ones that will go home with and fuck this dude or female that has brought them this drink because of that reason. These the same bitches that are fucking for subway sandwiches and new outfits. What the fuck is wrong wit you? This don't apply if you know this person. It does when this person is random. Its a drink. Most of the time, the shit you buy is the same drink you drink at home. Oh and please don't think offering me a drink is gonna impress me. Sorry sir or ma'am that wont cut it. Take note: if you buy me a drink 99.99% of the time I will turn it down. If I don't just know even if I know you I leave with who I came with so don't get your hopes up. This is just some more club etiquette to think about before you get your feelings hurt over a ridiculous expectation. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

The Bedroom Rules

Ladies and Gentlemen, I was having a conversation just last night and I hear the story about how a person's bedroom space was violated. Yes this is possible especially when you are dealing with mutha fuckas that obviously don't know you that well. I don't know about everybody else bit I will tell you this: you will learn real quick from me when you have violated my space period. I would like to present to you my own person bedroom rules. No it is not all sexual but you will learn to respect my space. Here we go:

1. Don't get your ass in the middle of my bed and invade all of my space. The blue cloud is a beautiful place...MY BEAUTIFUL PLACE! What the fuck is wrong wit you? The only exception to this if I am about to lay on you so we can cuddle while we sleep or chilling. Otherwise, stay yo ass out of the majority of my bed space. That is mine and mine only!

2. Don't come changing my channels and flipping all through my shit. Yes nigga I'm watching that. I might be courteous enough to ask what you wanna watch but only if I care.

3. Don't plan to spend the night unless invited to do so. The only exceptions to this: my family and the crew, and I will even let them know if its bad timing. If I didn't suggest you stay, prepare to go home before I go to sleep.

4. Don't be going through my shit. Never had this problem, but I wish a mutha fucka would...

5. My puppy is going to be in my room from time to time. Its his room too. Respect his space. He lives here. You don't.

6. Throw away anything you plan to dispose of in the trash can. Its green and sits in one corner of my room. Use it.

7. Don't think because you are in my room that you gonna get me naked unless this is something we have previously discussed. Just cuz I brought you up here don't mean I wanna let you have it. Nah shit don't work like that.

8. If I get dressed, it means you get dressed too. Follow suit. If I am putting on my clothes don't get comfortable in my bed naked and relax yourself. Nah. Please dress and plan to bounce.

9. No dramatics. I don't do those. Don't bring to my place of peace.

10. If we agree to fuck, please don't get in my bed or my room bullshitting. Yes I am cool with a convo beforehand and yeah we can do more than just that. When the clothes come off I expect your A game. Nothing less. The second I figure out you are fronting on me, I will show you the door. Bye bitch. Not wit it.

11. Practice good hygiene and don't come in my room smelling all kinds of foul. If we cool like that you will be allowed to take a shower. Otherwise you will get put out. Done deal.

12. If you pass gas and don't say excuse me or pass one of those killers that run a chick out her own shit, go to the bathroom, plan to leave, and know you have killed the whole mood.

13. If you want to leave, don't give me an excuse to why you leaving. Just give me a "I'm about to get ready to go" and I will politely walk you to the door.

14. I do live with other people. Be mindful of this when you come to my place. Thanks.

15. Don't insult or disrespect me. This includes my stuff and anything that stands for what I am about. Period.

This is all I have for now but if you ever get the pleasure of being in my room, you will know that it can be another one or two out there. Please know that every person has their own set of bedroom rules, and it might not be put up on the wall it something, but they exist. Don't think you are the exception unless told so and know it for a fact. You better have a talk before you get over there. Otherwise you probably will end up embarrassing yourself. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

Holding Out...For What?

So...I had a random thought on my way home this morning about a conversation I was having a few days ago with this dude about dating. One part of this conversation is the talk of sex on the first date. Am I wit it? Am I against it? What do I do when it comes down to giving it up? Well its like this: I believe and support sex on the first date. No that doesn't mean I give it up on every first date that I go on, but I ain't against doing it either. To be honest, I know when I see a person if I wanna fuck them or not. I just determine how long I am gonna wait to go for it when/if we have a conversation with each other. If that's all I want from a dude, then all this dating and going out and spending money on me shit ain't necessary. Give me what I want and be on your way. Now, let's get the subject of this post: women that hold out on giving up the vajaja. Yes I support you making your own decisions but there is only two reasons I will try and talk you out of not waiting to give it up: because I think the reason you are holding out is purely stupid and because I actually care about why you are doing it. What's a stupid reason you ask? "He/she gonna think I'm a ho." Hunny this ain't 1999. If he/she thinks you a ho for giving up within two weeks of meeting, he/she thought you were a ho when you met. Lets be real. In this person's eyes you were always the freak and at some point in the near future this person figured they could get you to buss it open. Just saying. If all it took was a trip to Red Lobster and some cheesy biscuits (those biscuits are the shit by the way) then so be it, but don't think he/she just had the magically thought that you are easy because you fucked the first date. Most real men or women just think you know what you want in life. Hell if you are the aggressor in the situation some will actually want you more. Some women have this thought that you are supposed to make a man or woman wait til after a certain time period to have sex with a person. What if after that 60 day period this person no longer has interest in touching you or you in general? I want you to know off top that he or she will fuck other people until you decide to give it up. Oh you mad? Sounds like you need to buss it open. We all adults here. If you that caught up in your feelings about fucking maybe that is something for you to definitely work on. Who knows? Fucking this person could make them want you even more. If they quit fucking wit you like that after you give it up then you now know they on some high school shit and ain't worth your time anyway. The ones that usually end up in this situation? The ones that hold out the longest...at least that's what I heard. I don't know. If I want it I am going for it. Fuck it. I'm grown and don't have a single fuck to give about how a mutha fucka feel about me after the fact. Oh you wanna disappear? Well do it in a quickness so I can go on with life. Want to act funny? Know that I am laughing at yo ass from afar and laugh even harder when you come back wanting something from me. Personal opinion: holding out is a little unnecessary if it ain't for the right reasons. Taking things slowly? That's fine. Really want something serious out of it? Understandable. Know this: there are successful marriages that have started from two people that fucked each other when they first met. Fuck the first date. That came later. There have also been failed relationships from people that have decided to wait. All of it is a toss up. My suggestion: give it up when you ready, no matter how long or short of a period of time it is. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

Getting The Right Fit...The Nasty Way

Some of these grown ass boys out here are fucken hilarious. I mean they are funny as shit. It's crazy how you are given the green light to get what you want and you fuck it up in the worst way: by trying to make it seem that you are something that you are not. Let's get into a scenario: a chick offers to give it up. You take the opportunity and you meet up with her. Everything is going smoothly. And then yall get down to the act. You pull out this Magnum and put it on like it just fits perfectly or some shit and get to it only for it to continuously slide and possibly break. THIS IS NOT HOT! I dont know know who told some mutha fuckas that this is impressive or that it will give a female this thought that you doing something, but all you are doing is pissing her off with this stopping and starting shit. Like what in your right mind makes you believe that your dick is so huge that you need that shit? Oh you dont wanna look like the short dick mutha fucka that you are in front of the people in the store when you buy them? Why do you give a fuck what they think? They aint fucking you. Maybe you aint a short dick male, but you aint a Magnum man. You know it and every chick you done pulled it out in front of knows it. All you are doing is setting yourself up for a fiasco hunny. I'm a grown ass woman and I am gonna put it out there: stop buying fucken condoms that you know yo ass cant fit. You are not doing much sir but cutting yourself off and putting yourself in the position to be dogged the fuck out. I mean really? You know why you couldnt fuck like you wanted to? Because the condom dont fit. You know why you kept getting nervous and scared? Because you was fearing that mutha fucka coming off. You know why you kept checking it and heard that dreadful snap when it broke? Because you shouldnt have been fucking with that shit in the first place. Compare it to a construction site. You not going to hammer a nail with just a handle. You cant drill with a manual screwdriver baby. Let's go to sports: you wont play football with a basketball. You wont wear cleats on a court. Why the fuck would you wear a condom you clearly cant fit? GET YO SHIT TOGETHER! Females, dont let these boys out here get away with that shit. If they pull that on you and you catch them, front that ass out. If you catch it after the fact, cut that ass off! Fuck him. He will live. Let him pull that fuck shit on another bitch because that is not okay. If they keep getting away with it, they gonna keep do it. Fellas, start fucking with the right shit. Dont be out here trying to trick a bitch. That shit aint safe and its stupid on your part because she aint gonna accept it. Oh and ladies, destroy the confidence that these "dick slangers," and I use that term loosely, have in themselves to be doing shit like that. When you are trying to get a job done, you need the right equipment. If you dont have it, ask her to provide it for you. If you know its old or whatnot, replace it. Go in that thing strong because if you dont, you will be the joke of the day. Can't do that? You better show her what that mouth do. Yeah I went there. Real men know where I am coming from. They are reading this shit right now saying to themselves, "HELL YEAH!"  Please believe that. Its as simple as knowing what you got and working with it. Honesty does impress real women, and if she dont want it, find a bitch that will because you fooling and losing by lying about it. Don't get mad when yo ass get sent home because you pulling out shit that dont belong to you naturally. And dont ever use a Durex. That shit will get you laughed at to your face. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Haha take note mutha fuckas! Hey man...I'm just saying...

Pick It Up...I Know You See It

One thing that we are taught as children is how to clean up after ourselves. Somebody is there to tell us to pick up our shit off our bedroom floors, kitchen counters, dining room tables, and living rooms, just to name a few places. Eventually, you would think a person that is taught this from a young age would make it a habit and learn how to clean up after themselves in every aspect of their daily lives, no matter what the situation maybe. Unfortunately I have learned that this is not the case. There are people of adult age that don't know how to clean up after themselves. They don't know the simple concept of picking up after themselves or wiping something up that they have spilled. Your bedroom is your business, but if you a nasty mutha fucka, I suggest you don't entertain there. If your house is dirty and you are expecting company, please do that person the common courtesy of tidy up your shit and eliminating all smells before this person gets there. If I walk in your house for the first time and I see all kinds of everything everywhere, I am not gonna wanna be there for long. If there is a bad smell, you can forget about me coming back. Oh and fucking? Out the question. A nasty house is the result of a nasty person. How do you expect me to believe that you keep yourself clean if you don't keep your surroundings at least decent? Some people can leave in all levels of filth. That is on you hunny, but I will he the one to ask you questions. Yes I will question that dirty dish in your floor. Yes I will wonder what that is stuck to your wall. Yeah I will ask you why is there a smell in your house. What the fuck man? If it is that serious, you should never entertain at home. Oh and don't just clean up the main place that you will be chilling out and not the pathway it takes to get there. If you know you have to walk through the living room, the dining room, and the kitchen before you reach the bedroom, you might want to clean all that shit up and make it look presentable BEFORE they get there. I don't blame them for leaving if they come in and it looks like there has been a party for a month straight in that bitch. Oh so the kitchen dirty? Nah I dont want nothing to eat or drink. Don't get mad at me refusing either. I seen that roach crawl across your counter and a month's worth of dishes in your sink. Just disgusting. Oh y'all think I am just talking about men? I have seen and heard of some of the most disgusting shit come from WOMEN! That's right, women can and in some cases are dirtier and nastier than men are. When I was in college, I leaved on campus for two years. The second year was horrid when it came to the bathroom situation. I swear we had a floor meeting with our RA every other week about the bathroom. It was disgusting to see women leave like that. I mean really. It was a female's apartment that helped me to develop my hatred for bad smells. I mean if I smell it and it is unpleasant, I start to cringe. I mean I will get highly pissed. Shit is just wrong when you know you can prevent that. Let me get to the point: the way that you keep your place and surroundings are a reflection of yourself. We all have busy lives, and yeah there is going to be some clutter. Nobody is perfect, but there is a difference between a light mess and complete disgustingness. Please don't be repulsive. Pick up after yourself and keep ya shit clean. Hey man...I'm just saying...

That's How I Feel

There will be no story going into this one but I will be telling on later...maybe. I don't like it when somebody decides to tell me how the fuck I feel about somebody else or them. That shit pisses me off. Don't tell me that I like you when I know I don't. Don't tell me that I have feelings for somebody when it is clear as fucken crystal that I don't. I mean seriously? Let's be real here. Unless you are my heart and emotions themselves, you don't know how I feel about anybody or anything. Stop assuming that you do. I was told that if you fuck a person for years, eventually you will have feelings for them. I don't know about others but that shit don't apply to me. I have had sex with a person for more than a year or two and haven't felt a thing about them except liking them enough to continue to get them naked. That's it. Some mutha fucka told me the other day that I like him and he know it. Bitch nigga please. You make me sick. You a clown that I let entertain me every once in a while. That is it. Like you? You better be glad I haven't tried to punch yo lights out by now. Heard that same shit a year ago for a former cut friend. "I know you have always liked me" What? If I liked you so much, why the only time I wanted to see you was at 3 in the morning? Really nigga? Shut the fuck up. I have friends. I have platonic friends. I have male friends that I would never even think of liking like that let alone wanting to be with. What the fuck man? I mean I have had men so adamantly tell me that I am gonna marry my best friend and be with him for the rest of my life. They are so wrong its ridiculous. I hate arrogant and cocky mutha fuckas that thinks it is cool to just assume that everybody want them. No boo boo. That is not the case. I laugh at the fuck niggas that want to assume that I just want to be around them because I entertain their conversation. No I want to see what new bullshit you are gonna come at me with today if I feel like being bothered with you at the time. Randoms of the world, know that I will never even think of liking you like that. Get ya mind right. I don't like you. If you keep talking that shit to me I am gonna act like I don't fucken know you. I am so sick and tired of this shit. Unless I tell you that I like this person or that person stop assuming that I do and quit fucken telling me that I do. Obviously you don't know me that's well. Yeah I know what I am talking about tonight. Hey man...I'm just saying...

Yeah You Know You Said It

You at work. You have been told that it has been voiced that you are not working like everyone expects you to do. Somebody has been saying that you don't do shit but sit around until it is time for you to go. You know this shit is not true by any means, but you really want to know who has been spreading these false lies about you. Finally, you find out who did it. You confront this person, and what do they do? They don't have anything to say to you, and then they have the nerve to be more mad than you are. Excuse me mutha fucka, but what the fuck do you have to be mad about? You the one that was sitting here talking all kinds of mad shit to the managers about me, and now you have the audacity to get mad and shit when I confront you about it? Are you fucken serious? Sit down! If you know you are doing this shit, just say, "yeah I said it" and keep it moving. Of course, the person that is confronting you about is gonna want to know why it is that you are saying this shit, but it is up to you to make the decision to talk to them about it or not. My strong suggestion: don't say anything about a person behind their back that you can't say to their face. I mean, this was some real bitch nigga shit. I mean for real? You gonna lie on me and then bitch up when I come to you about it? Let me inform the masses that I am not talking about females here. I am talking about what is supposed to be a grown ass man lying on a real grown ass man. Word? What the fuck is the purpose in this fuckery? Let me explain something to those that thinks shit likes this is okay: it gets you nowhere. Managers may promote telling on people, but they don't really like it. You will be forever labeled as the snitch, and no one is gonna be around you or talk to you. You will not get promoted or be in the good graces of any manager or supervisor because of it, and they will not be your friend. Oh and please believe if htey find out you are lying, you just put your job at jeopardy if you don't lose the shit. Now, if you are just a vindictive mutha fucka and don't give a fuck about any of that shit, do what you do, but if you gonna do it, at least have the decency to tell the truth. I mean seriously. Why the fuck do you feel like you have to lie? That is fucken ridiculous. This does not just apply to work. This applies to everything in life. It will never save you from anything or preserve a damn thing. If you said it, then you said it. Don't matter the reason why you said it, even though that will come in handy if you decide to explain why you said it. If you doing ridiculous shit like that, then be grown about it and admit to it. Yeah I said it. I did that. Don't be loud about it or yell or decide this is the time to be Billy Bad Ass because that shit is not only unnecessary but also something you don't have the right to even think of doing. Be prepared to have an angry mutha fucka in your face if you running around lying on them and telling on them like a 5-year-old child. When I am angry, I say shit that is utterly ridiculous but it comes out of pure emotion. Once, I was confronted about it. I owned up to it. Yeah I said that. Done deal. That is what needs to happen. There are consequences to this, but if it wasn't said in the first place, then this kind of shit wouldn't happen. Case in point: don't say shit about someone that you don't want coming back up later. You gonna pull some shit like that to anyone, then you best to be prepared to have a conversation later about it. Don't be a bitch. It's not a good look. Yes that applies to females too. Gender does not ever play a factor. Age don't either. This is a public service announcement. Don't think you know what I'm talking about? Hey man..I'm just saying...

Who You Talking To?

I always feel like I need to remind mutha fuckas at times that I am an adult. Its emphasized so much because I truly think that some people forget that I am a 25 year old grown ass woman and not some 7 year old child that needs discipline. I don't need nobody to pull out a belt and whoop me. I dont need somebody all down my throat over every fucken thing. I don't need you in my face sounding like a Rhode Scholar because you feel like you got to prove you ate smart. Guess what bitch? I'm smart and I have a lot more short and simpler words that get the job done just as good. Don't talk down to me. Don't toot your nose up at me. Dont talk to me like a kid. My parents talk to me and recognize me as the adult that I am, and I am their child. I expect the same from everybody else. Recognize the fact that you are not only talking to an adult but a semi civilized one at that. Adding in my credentials is only necessary when talking to people that feel they need a reason to treat you differently. You need a reason to treat me like a grown ass woman? I just gave you one. Either act right towards me or shut the fuck up. I don't argue either, but I do find myself at times stooping to the level of others and acting the fuck out. Just me being childish because that is what that is. Oh you got beef? Come talk to me at a voice that is at normal level. Use your inside voice. Don't come yelling, hoot, hollering all in my shit and think for a second that I want to talk to you about anything. We are not having any sort of a conversation with you throwing tantrums and acting like a 5 year old. Hell I know a 5 year old and she don't act out that bad, so I will not accept that from someone that hasn't been in grade school for more than a year. You done lost yo mind and yo common sense thinking I am going to respond to that. Oh and don't think because I have some sort of connection with you that you have now become my boss and can just demand me to do shit. Who in the blue fuck do you think you are talking to? Take that demand and shove it up yo lazy ass. If you want me to do something, ask me, and make sure you say please and thank you. I am not talking to my fam or my crew or anybody else that has showed me this respect. No I am talking to all the people out there that think that because we fucking or are in a relationship or are over me at work or just have some sort of rapport with me you can just talk to me any kind of way. Umm fuck you. I dont accept. You will get a response from me, but it wont be pleasant. I don't take well to being yelled at, so please keep your voice to a minimum when talking to me. Now I know when I get excited that my voice raises and I have no clue when that is happening. I know the difference between naturally loud and yelling. Don't fucken yell or holler at me. Another thing: I cuss a lot. It's my second language. No matter what my mood is, I cuss. I know when I am being cussed out. Don't think you will get away with that Scott free unless I deserved and even then there are better ways of going about talking to me about than all that extra. I don't do dramatics except for the shit I watch on TV. Fuck the bullshit. Watch ya mouth when talking to somebody because people are crazy these days and yo ass will be the next one on the news because you was all big bad and bold and talked down to the wrong person. You like being talked to like that? That's on you. Me personally, I will pass. Fuck that shit. I ain't telling anybody to do anything. It is just a suggestion. A very strong one. Don't get asked the question of who you are talking to because any statement after that probably wont be too good. Respect is earned, and in order to earn it you must give it. Pass it around along with those smiles people. Communication is the key to this message. Learn how to communicate with others on the level that they deserve and you want them to communicate with you. Don't think I know what I am talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

No Attraction to All

Okay so here is something I feel needs to be spoken on because this has gotten on my fucken nerves since high school. Sigh...here we go: to the straight people of the world that believe that all people of the gay, lesbian or bisexual community are attracted to everybody of the same sex as them, go fuck yourselves. Yes I said it and I meant it. I am so sick and tired of someone finding out another person is gay and says, "well as long as they don't hit on me, I'm cool." Umm what the fuck makes you think that you look so fucken hot that they just couldn't resist the urge to want to hit on you? Hoe sit down! Yeah I went there. Fuck it. Most of the people that say this shit are straight and just think they are hot shit. Yeah you look like hot shit. Fuck outta here. Just because a person is attracted to the same sex DOES NOT mean that they are attracted to everybody of that gender. Lesbians are not attracted to all women. Gay men are not attracted to all men. They have types and standards just like everybody else. Don't believe me? I know plenty of people that can explain this to you, inlcuding myself. Am I a lesbian? No I am bisexual, which means I like women too, but my friends will tell you in a quickness that I don't like all men OR women. I am picky as fuck. Like I said before, standards and types. Get yo ass off that $3.99 plastic pedestal that you have put yourself on and have a seat in the place reserved for regular mutha fuckas because that is what you are if you truly believe that every gay person is gonna want you like that or just because a person is attracted to the same gender you are on that list. You don't know how many people I have been wanting to shut the fuck down because they have made comments like that. This bitch said that shit to me one day and I just laughed. Hoe you shaped like a bag of laundry and look like King Kong in the face and you think I want you? Kill yourself first, then maybe you have a chance as somebody that looks better. Fuck outta here with that shit. People forget real quick that we are all human and act the same in various ways. You are not the exception to this shit sweetie. Shut it down before I shut it down for you. If you have any doubt or disbelief about what I am saying, ask and see if you don't get rejected by at least one person that is of the same sex as you and is actually homosexual. It will happen. Trust me on that shit. Don't think I know what I am talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

Unladylike

Ever since high school, I have always had my own sense of living. I knew I would never be that skinny chick in the movies and magazines. I knew I wasn't the prettiest thing walking. I knew I wasn't the best at everything. I quit caring what other people think unless they are close to me and even then that shit is limited. One of my pet peeves is when someone tells me something is unladylike. I shouldn't be doing that because a lady never does those things. I am a grown ass woman and is capable of doing things that some men can't do. No I don't even get close to thinking that i can do everything a man can do. I can't, and I will admit that with no shame or malice or anything. I am all woman and have been since the day I was born, but stop telling me what it is appropriate it is for me to do and not to do. Its unladylike to spit, but every once in a while I do that shit. Its unladylike to cuss, but my mouth is foul as shit. Its unladylike to sit with your legs open, but mine are slightly open all the time. Hell I have big thighs that touch. I cant close my legs all the way for long periods of time. That causes cramps. Anyway, I don't know who wrote the handbook on how to control a grown ass woman by telling her the shit she does is reserved for men only, but the copy that was meant for me has been burned and buried baby. Fuck that shit. I don't care about what is unladylike. Who the fuck said I was a lady? I am a woman, yes this is true and I am fully capable of being a lady, but I am me. I want to drink beer, watch football, spit, cuss, and fart. Shit I am human and I have interests in a lot of things and habits that span around a lot of shit. The last of my concern is if my ankles are crossed when I am sitting or what is coming out my mouth when I am not talking to the person trying to correct me. Who the fuck are you talking to? Hell nah. Go away. My thing is this: do you have your life together while you over here criticizing and critiquing mine? Probably not, so go mind your own fucken business. If you see me doing some unladylike shit, don't voice it to me that you think it's unladylike. I dont give two fucks about that. I am living. Do the same. Oh you don't have a life huh? Tough shit. Don't know what to tell you, but stay yo ass out my face telling me that I shouldn't do this that and the third because isn't ladylike. Who the fuck cares? As long as I know when to act like a lady and to just be me, I'm good. As long as there is a breath in my body, I will act as I want and do as I want. Deal with it because sometimes being a lady only goes so far. Don't think I know what I am talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

That's Not My Job

Everybody I know has had at least 3 jobs in their life. Yes I said 3. Let me remind you I am 25. This is normal. Anyway, we all have had at least one boss that has told us to do out job plus extra shit. What extra shit you may ask?  Things that are not listed in our job description to do and is not our responsibility. Excuse me? Just because you make a couple of extra dollars than me and where some special shirt and got some authority don't mean that I will be ready and willing to do your job for you. You the supervisor right? Why am I looking over the rest of the employees making sure they get shit done? That ain't my job. You the manager right? Why am I looking over the other employees' work and evaluating it? That ain't my job. When you promote me and give me the pay, then I will be more than happy to do that shit plus some because it would be my job. Dont think because you hold my job in your hands that you just own me. Fuck that shit. I know of a few good words that I can say to you that would be me being respectful and saying fuck you all at once. Dont try me like that. Something you managament folk need to realize is that we lower level employees will not listen to orders given to each other FROM EACH OTHER! I don't mind helping another employee or us working together or training another employee to do what we do at the job, but all this supervision and managing shit is for just that type of person- the supervisor and manager. If I am neither, which I have never been, do not expect me to act like it or stand in your place for any period of time. What the fuck I look like? Oh and I want you to threaten to fire me. What you think that is about to do? I will let you know to your face: that ain't my job. That is not what I was hired to do. Man really? You want an employee to do something right? Tell them to do it. I ain't your flunky. Don't be telling me to do that shit. "Look over everything while I go handle this." If some shit go down, what am I supposed to do? You ain't about to hold me responsible. I know that shit. If you call me in during my off day, don't be talking to me as if you doing me the favor. Umm you called me. I didn't ask for this shit, so don't be fucken talking to me like I am just all extra wrong for helping yo ass out. What the fuck ever! And stop throwing your weight around and acting as if we don't know who you are. We all get the point. We know who you are and what your position is. Thank you for informing us. Now get the fuck out the way so I can do my damn job and sit yo ass down some fucken where. Geez. Some mutha fuckas act like they ain't never had nothing before. Oh and plead don't be so lazy on your job that your work is spilled over to me. Umm no! I protest the fuck out that shit. You must be out your mind and have lost all common sense to think I will accept that with a smile. Shitting me. I will ask you 5011 questions before hand. I am the one. Oh and dont have me doing shit that I was not hired to do. If my job is to solely sweep and mop floors, why you want me to paint walls? That is what the painters are for. This is just an example of what I call extra shit. Look, just because you are given that kind of responsibility does not mean you need to abuse it. Case in point: DO YOUR OWN FUCKEN JOB AND LET ME DO MINE! Shit! Don't think I know what I am talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

The Period...Fuck It!

Today, I seen the same signs that I see every month. The slight pink that shows up that lets me know that Aunt Flow is coming to visit. Bitch. Wanna know who Aunt Flow is? For those that have not figured it out by now it is my period, my cycle, the rag, whatever the fuck you want to call it. Why am I sitting here about to go off about something that is natural and has been happening since I was 12? Because it just brings me pain, moodiness, and occasionally fucks up my clothes. That's why. FUCK A MENSTRUAL CYCLE! Yeah I said it and I mean every word of that shit. Men stop telling women that they will be all right when they are having cramps. Until you know what a menstrual cramp is like, you have no right to tell a female it ain't that bad. Let's see y'all do this shit month in month out for decades. Wouldn't last two days on a cycle. Yeah I said it. This is one thing that I believe all women agree on. PERIODS ARE THE WORST! I am 25 years old and been going through this shit for the past 13 years. To this day, every time my period is showing signs of showing up, I am already pissed the fuck off. I have been through four different emotions in the past three hours. Who the fuck lives like this? UGH! Complete bullshit. And then there's the cramps. I have seen women double over and look like their uterus is trying to eat through their bodies because the cramps are so bad. My cramps put me out of commission. Its bad enough the cycle is halting my sex life in a major way but for the first couple of days or so I have to deal with pain too? What the FUCK man? There is nothing that can really be done about having this shit every month except have my uterus cut out, get pregnant (which I have heard that some women still have a period), or take pills specialized to halt this kind of things. Even though I despise being on it, I am perfectly fine with the purpose of a menstrual cycle. Oh and supposed to be grown ass men, if I hear one more of you say eww when a chick is talking about this shit or tells you she is on it, I want to personally slap the taste out your mouth. Every woman goes through this every month once a month, sometimes twice...GET OVER IT! What is the point of this blog? To express my hatred for my cycle. I hate it. Plain and simple. If there was a way for me to have done what a period does and not have to go through the bleeding the cramps and the fuck up of emotion, I would be much happier with life. Since there isn't, I will continue to take on bitch every time this fucken few days comes along. So aggravating. Smh. Hey man...I'm just saying...

Time to Leave

I was at the bus stop the other day, and this chick walks up and stands there with me. She looks irritated but I ask her how she is doing anyway. She says she is okay but clearly she isn't. She proceeds with making a phone call. I know she talking to a dude because she yelling at him about how he decided to stay with his friends and play whatever game system they was playing and not walk her to the bus stop. She goes into this spill about how he don't care about her and how he care more about his friends instead of her. He hangs up on her. She calls back (mistake number 2) and goes on yelling at him about how she never spent his money on other niggas but he done spent her money and is fucking other bitches and how disrespectful he is. Tears start running down her cheek as she gets on the bus and is still arguing with him some more until she hangs up. This all happened within a matter of five minutes. We as women have to do better than our emotions allow us to do. In reality, that is the ruler of 95% of our actions. How we feel about shit. She is probably in heavy lust with that nigga, but his constant bullshit is fucking her up inside. I have been there. Continuing to deal with someone's bullshit because of the good times that we have when everything is good and putting up the consistent bullshit that is being brought to the table. Every couple has problems. Everybody has imperfections, or uniqueness to them. Nobody's perfect, but you know when you are dealing with n ain't shit nigga and when it is time to call that shit quits. Yeah you see the signs. Time to call them out. Don't put up with nothing that shows no signs of changing. Don't be her, calling a nigga that is a 10 minute walk away in order to cuss him out over something like that. Be aware and make knowledge of your situation. It is only so long that you can go having a conversation over and over until something small can be become the biggest issue. In her case its time to leave. No one should put up with that kind of shit. I say no one because no male should put up with an ain't shit female either. Fellas, you know she ain't shit if the only time she happy wit you is when you get paid. You know when a chick is after ya money and the dick and when she is wit tiu for you. One thing that my ex's can say about me? I was with them for them. Fuck everything else. Yeah the ain't shit ones made themselves known, but not all of them fall into that category. Just because it is good to you don't mean it's good for you. There should be so much arguing in a relationship. There are better ways if communicating other than yelling at each other and cussing each other out. Please pay attention to the red flags and the signs but be aware of which is real flags and signs and what is made up shit in your mind. Despite what everybody say, there are faithful ones out there, and everybody doesn't cheat. There are still good one out there for the taking, and yes you can do better than him or her. Fuck what they say. Love? Love should never hurt, mentally, physically, or spiritually. If it is killing you to stay, its time to leave. It is going to hurt to go, but you will be better alone and have time to get ready for the next one. Yes this is true. This is not written in a tone from anger or anything. This is written in the perspective of somebody that understands what it is like to be in that position. Yes it sucks, but it can be avoided. Don't think I know what I am talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

Clubbing 101

Even though I have reached my mid 20s, I haven't been to a club in a while. I don't really go to clubs and if I do I have to be drunk because that is the only way I will get through it without losing my mind. The atmosphere is ridiculous at timed and I really don't know how to deal with it without a little alcohol in the system. There are different things that I would like to address when regarding the club. For those of you that I offend, please correct yourself. I will go in order of leaving the house to leaving the club. First thing is who you go with. Do not take the people that are just going to sit on the wall the majority of the night and do nothing. Clubs are meant for dancing, not observation. Hit the floor or hit the door. Next is travel and parking. Please make sure you are traveling with responsible people. What I mean is everybody can't be fucked up because somebody gotta drive. Of drinking or smoking is that important to everyone, please take a cab. Please do not complain if the club parking lot is full on a Saturday night. that is to be expected. Either you are going to find a space, go yo another club, or figure out something else to do. Next on the list: the line. Guess what VIP is? The cut line. Nothing more, nothing less. Unless there is a specified cut line, you will be paying $20-50 in order to get in before everybody in that long ass line standing there waiting two hours just to sweat and whatnot. Don't look for any special privileges or discounts or anything of that nature. And then you are inside. Its going to be hot. Unless you are in a warehouse or it is not that crowded, it's going to be hot. The only place you will get air is outside. Men, no means no. If she don't want to dance wit you or turns down your advances, walk away and find another. Ladies, please don't go to the club with the intention of finding yo husband or trying to get men to buy you drinks and blow them off. That is some cheap, desperate looking ass shit. If he offer, that is fine, but don't be seeking the shit. Eww. Oh and don't be surprised if that mutha fucka follow you around for about two hours when he do. Some men are that crazy honey. Welcome to the club world. Now its time to go. Omg please don't not try and bed somebody right after y'all leave the club. At least let them take a shower first. This person has been grinding their private parts all over people and you want all that all over you? You a nasty mutha fucka. Please leave with the people you came with. It is not okay for you to leave with someone you don't know. Ummm can you say set up?  This is a little club etiquette for those that don't know or have it. Pleas use this information wisely. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

The Fuckery Known As Teasing

I couldn't help but to touch in this subject because I get peeved at just hearing stories about it. Here's the scenerio. You get these texts from a chick right. She start profusing how she wants to fuck and all that. She sends you pics of her body and be telling you how horny she is and blah blab blah. So you start thinking to yourself, "oh she wants to fuck ASAP. Yeah I need to try and make this happen." As my best friend likes to say, opportunity. Anyway, you go in for the gusto and start talking about setting something up. All of a sudden, she ain't wit it. She starts talking about other shit and don't want to even fathom y'all actually doing the shit she talking. She just wanted to voice her thoughts. She wanted to let you know how she was feeling. Now you sitting there with a hard dick or a wet pussy all by yourself. You know what I call that? Fuck shit! Teasers are some of the worst people on earth. Any male or female that does this should be shot. Okay maybe not shot, but dammit man that shit is the worst. Don't tease me. If you talking about giving it to me, you better follow through because not doing so will get yo ass kicked. Ladies, don't tease people. I address some women because females are notorious for doing it. Wanting to fuck and not being able to do it is one thing. Talking about fucking and refusing to do it? Totally different. I can't stand even hearing a story about a teaser. Shit irks the fuck outta me. Oh you can send me pictures of your half naked to naked body but I can't see it in person? Get the fuck outta here. So you pull out the penis for me to see but don't want to give it to me? Where they do that at? Either give it up or don't make me want it. I do not encourage taking anything now. Don't get it twisted. If you encounter a teaser, give them three chances to follow through or cut that ass off. Teasers get no approval, no matter how good they look. You feeling on me getting me all hot and bothered but don't wanna fuck. What? That will not do. If you don't fuck me somebody else will. Just know yo ass ain't off the hook until I get tired of trying. If I am sitting here telling you how much you turn me on and what I want to do to you, then obviously I want to fuck and I will follow through. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. That's how it should be. Yeah the conversation of sex can happen and yes people are attracted to those that they can't have. Its life. Don't be a tease. That's some real fucked up shit. I'm pissed just talking about it. Don't promise to give it up and don't do it. Omg those are the absolute WORST! How you gonna give this lip about fucking the shit out of a person and then when it is time to put up or shut up, you quiet as fuck? That deserves an invite to you cut land. Too old and impatient for that bullshit. That's what it is
Bullshit, and I have zero tolerance for that. I do recognize that shit happens, and in those cases, this does not apply. All other situations do apply and should be treated as such. You don't want a relationship? Fuck and keep it moving. If you don't know how to do that, it is never too late to learn. Just don't tease a person. Men that goes for you too. Yes i have personal experience with that. Not being the teaser but being teased. Can't deal with it. Don't be a perpetrator of this heinous crime. Just buss it open. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

Stupid Questions?

One of the biggest debates in history is whether or not there is a such thing as a stupid question. Some people would say the only stupid question is the one that is not asked. No that is just an unasked question. Doesn't make it stupid. Just makes it unknown to everyone except the one that wants to ask it. Some people would say that there is no such thing as a stupid question period because every question has a purpose. I only agree with the second half of that. Every question does have a purpose, but it doesn't mean it is a good or knowledgeable purpose. It just means that the question was asked for a reason. There is a such thing as a stupid question.  Asking me am I going to do something that I am required to do is asking a stupid question. Why? Because I have no choice but to do it. For example, if I dont go to work, I dont make money, and if I dont make money, then I don't have it to pay my bills, and not paying my bills results in me losing shit. Yeah that is not happening. Why ask me am I going to work? Unless I tell you otherwise I am going to work. Period. With that knowledge, it has now become a stupid question to me. See how that works? Some questions are asked for clarification. Yes the person kmows or assusmes he or she knows the answer to a question, but he or she asks anyway to get clarification. Not a stupid question. When we all know you know the answer to the question and ask it anyway, it has now become a stupid question. I'll let you know when a question is stupid. No bullshit. If I deem the question stupid, I probably wont even answer it. People think about what you are asking before you ask it. Its that simple. Asking a question that is retarded is annoying to the person you are asking it to. Be mindful of the questions you ask and if you feel it is stupid, at least let the person know you are about to ask a stupid question. Yes I do this, and I advise people to do the same thing. Stupid questions are out there people. You can't avoid being a victim, but you can avoid being a suspect. Don't think I know what I am talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

You Can't Have My Password

Here is something that is brought up when talking about dating and relationships: your significant other either ask you to go through your shit or just did it? They ever find something they didnt want to see? Let me tell you a story: my freshmen year of college, I had a blackplanet account. Yes I said. I have been a college grad for two years, so it has been some years. Anyway, my boyfriend at the time had one too. We knew each other's usernames, and like dumbasses, we made each other's passwords related to the other person. Well he took it upon himself to guess mine and go through my messages, found one that sounded like I had feelings for another nigga, and sent it to me through e-mail to let me know he seen it. Irate is an understatement. I decided to do the same thing and found way worse shit. Needless to say, it was over after that. It was the one and only time I went through my significant other's shit, and I vowed never to do that shit again. So far so good. Reasoning: no one will ever get the permission to go through my shit like that. People, even in relationships and marriages, everybody deserves their privacy. It is up to that person to be an ain't shit person or not. If you decide to date or be with someone else, obviously you trust this person. What is the reason for going through their shit? You wanna prove to yourself that you are the shit or something? When you do that shit, you will always find something you don't like. It doesn't matter how major or minor it is, it always happens without fail. I'll tell you now. Fucking with me, you better hack my shit because I ain't giving you the password or handing you a damn thing. You can forget that shit. I don't give a fuck about where we at and what we are to each other. Can't front: I might show shit to my friends every once in a while, but they dont go through my shit without me saying so. Nobody does. That's how shit is. Don't mean I have shit to hide. It means I love my privacy and no one will be allowed to just openly violate it. You done lost yo damn mind if you think you going all through my texts and shit. Answer my phone? Get the fuck outta here! Don't worry about who writing on my wall on Facebook or what's in my e-mail. Personal opinion: unless y'all are on that level with each other where y'all don't give a fuck about going through each other's shit WITH THE KNOWLEDGE THAT YALL GO THROUGH EACH OTHER'S SHIT, refrain from doing so. All that is going to do is create trust issues and bigger problems. Communication. Can't stress it enough. Please don't put on blast the shit you find if no one but yo friends that helped you look for through the shit or rooted you on to do it know, don't be bringing that shit up or throwing all in somebody's face. That shit burns bridges and shit. I have to admit: there was something that I saw and threw in an ex's face, but trust me when I say I wasn't looking for it. It just appeared. I handled the situation wrong. That is what happens when you do that shit. If you are going to be with someone, you have to be able to trust them, if it is trusting they are going to be the ain't shit person you think they are. Question: if you think they ain't shit, why you fucking wit them? The sex is a ridiculous and stupid answer by the way. You can fuck someone without all that extra shit. I am an assistant coach on team fuck and keep it moving. I say assistant because I know people that can do that shit better than me. Speaking of that, don't be interrogating and getting in the business of somebody you just fucking. Friends do it out of concern and noseyness, and so do family. Other than that, you are just annoying the shit outta someone and abusing a right or privilege you don't have. Sit the fuck down with that shit. Just cause I might have gave it up to you doesn't mean that you can be all in my shit. Hell even if I am your woman, you better keep that shit to a minimum. I dont do well with too many questions. Again it goes back to trust and adds in the element of insecurity. Guess what? Invading and destroying a person's privacy and trust for you ain't the way to go. Obviously if I am wit you, I trust you. If I didnt, it wouldn't even gotten this far, so don't make me question your trust for me by pulling that dumb shit. I ain't wit it, and nobody else should be either. That's bullshit. I hope that everybody takes this from this post: tend to your own shit and stay on top of yours. Be the lady or gentleman that you were raised to be and treat everyone with the respect t they deserve by respecting their privacy. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

Team No Sugarcoating

Honesty is something that everybody ask for. No matter what the subject is, everyone demands some level of honesty from other people. Everyone wants others to tell the truth, but everybody can't handle it. This post will talk about both subjects along with a third. First off: don't sugarcoat something for someone that has ask for your advice or personal opinion. Remind them that this is your personal opinion and speak your mind how you see fit. Don't be rude or start yelling. Be adult about it but at the same time, don't sugarcoat a damn thing. They want your honesty. Make it brutual so they get everything you feel or think about what they asking about. Sugarcoating will not give that person what they want or might even make things worse. Just say the shit, even if it ends up in a sporadic rant. I do it more often than in the past. Secondly: please don't ask questions that you don't want the answer to. I can't stand that shit. If you really don't want the answer to it, don't ask the damn question because whoever you ask is going to give you the answer you didn't want to hear or was trying to avoid. May not happen all the time, but a great majority of the time, the things you didn't want to know are on the other end of those dreaded question. Really don't want to know: don't fucken ask! This is another place where no sugarcoating comes into place. You see, if a person is asking you a question, they want the answer. It is not your job to read their mind and figure out if they really want the answer or not. It is your job to be completely honest and answer the shit. Worry about the other shit later, or don't worry about the shit at all. Team fuck yo feelings usually plays a great game in this one. Third: learn how to handle the truth, no matter how it is given to you. If you don't feel it is the truth, voice that, but don't think everybody is lying to you because there is other people, even if it is just one, that knows you better than you do. Don't ask for completely honesty and then want to snap or flip the fuck out when you get it. That's what you wanted right? Would you rather me lie? Oh you wanted me to tell you what you wanted to hear right? Umm fuck that shit. I'm going to give you what you asked for and what I promised to you: honesty. The truth. Fuck it. If I lie to you, it is going to make it worse. Time to grow the fuck up and take what I am telling you. I will only tell you what you want to hear if I agree with it. Other than that, it ain't going down like that. What I am saying is this: honesty is something that everybody wants and the truth is something everybody wants, but if you don't wanna know, don't ask. If the person wants to volunteer the info, then fine. That is on them, but if you are dying to know, be prepared for what you want and even more prepared for what you don't. Don't ask a person to be honest if you are going to coach them on what to say. That is not wanting honesty. That is wanting to read ya mind and run with your beliefs and feelings about the shit. Guess what? No one can read a fucken mind, and not everybody will tell you what you wanted to hear. Sorry. Wont happen. Yeah I got some work to do in these catergories. I will admit that I have work to do when it comes to this stuff. That's the truth. Always be ready for it. Don't think I know what I am talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

Hitting the Sheets? Hit the Showers!

Warning: this post is vulgar as shit. I have changed some of my language to make it a little cleaner, but it is still kinda raunchy. You have been warned. Enjoy reading.
Something that me and my friends have laughed about but really have dodged and have been good at avoiding is the smelly body experience. Let's paint the picture. You talking to that fine chick you have been trying to get at for like months now. She talk that good shit in ya ear, telling you what she want to do and how she want to hook up. You set it up and whatnot, glad that she done finally gave in. She comes over. Y'all start touching and feeling each other literally, and clothes start to hit the floor. And here comes the smell. Yeah there is a smell that has made its way to your nose, and you are now in the process of trying to figure out what it is. Guess what? It's her. Yeah that fine chick you done finally got naked smells like hot fish. You can't believe this so you do the smell test. Yeah you put your fingers down there and bring them to your face. Inches from your nose, the smell is more evident than before. Yeah you're disgusted. I'm disgusted just painting that picture for you. Stank vajaja is a no-no, people. I mean really? You know you about to buss it open, you need to take care of that. Wipe it out, clean it, make sure it is smelling good and ready for action. Please do not open your legs and believe it is okay to fuck when you just came from a run or workout. Hell if you been running around all day and he just got to have it, take a second, wipe it out, and do a smell check on yourself. Yes I said it. No man or woman should be on the receiving end of bad smelling vajaja. As my best friend has said, "if I can smell it I know you can smell it." Don't be acting like you don't know you have a smell to you. That is not something to be oblivious to. Oh and don't come in contact with a mutha fucka like me because I will tell you about yourself and make sure you get a good whiff of that shit before you get sent away from me or I leave, whichever one is the case. Men, you think you an exception because you hanging and swinging? Lol if you did you done lost ya damn mind. No chick wants to touch your dirty penis sir. Please wash that. I mean really? Sweaty balls are not the move. Yeah I went there. That's just as nasty. You know what you have been doing before you decided you wanted to fuck. Please clean ya body beforehand and make sure she is clean too. No matter who you trying to buss down or make love to or have sex with or play with or whatever you trying to do, please practice the good hygienic ways of everyday life and make sure your body is clean. I mean dammit man! I'll tell you right now. I don't put up with that shit or excuses for it. You will leave my presence or I will exit stage right if this shit happens with no problems. I don't give a fuck. We are adults. Wash ya ass before you try to get some ass. Its that simple. Oh and please don't be the nasty ass person that want to do special shit and haven't done this. What I mean? Don't be pulling out the condiments and fruit for somebody to eat off you and your body covered in any dirt whatsoever. That's a stomachache and an ass kicking waiting to happen. You gotta be a disgusting mutha fucka to do that shit. Even if you don't give a fuck, have some resepct for your body and yourself. About to get some or even think it is a possibility? Hop in the shower and get to it. Don't think I dont know what I am talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

The Filthy Nails and Hands

I was having a conversation a few days ago while I was at work and the person that I was talking to complimented me on my nails and how clean they are. I thanked him, as a person should do, but the conversation changed to that subject. Dirty nails. Eww. I have seen them on men and women alike, and it is antonishing how some people can let their nails get to a point to where even if you clean them they still look dirty. Your occupation is not an excuse. Lack of time is not an excuse. I developed the habit of picking dirt out my nails. Some people hate the sound it makes when my nails click, but they stay clean. I don't like dirt in my nails. Makes me uneasy. There is bacteria and germs in dirt. Why would I want that sitting in my nails? That's nasty. I'm checking my nails right now to make sure they are clean. By the way, I am talking about my own natural nails, not acrylics. I have nothing against acrylic nails, and if my nails didn't grow so fast I would have acrylics more often, but even when I go get them done, that habit still doesn't change. You think you got a shot at touching me with dirty nails? Anything past a hug is a no, and you better be glad if I let you do that much. Dirty nails make me question a person's hygiene. I mean if your nails are always dirty, how often do you bathe? Do you regularly wash your hands? How much stuff do you touch that you transfer dirt onto? I mean really? This is what runs through my mind when I see dirty nails. Oh and please believe I will never permit a person to even think of touching my naked body with that kind of shit going on. Why? So you can place that dirt on and/or in my body and cause abnormal shit to happen? Umm I think not. Yes y'all know what I am talking about. I hate to say this, but I will: females with dirty nails are definitely looked at differently. You talking about nasty? Nah. A female with dirty nails is looked at as untouchable on all levels. A man will see that shit and think you are just eww. Don't get me wrong. There are some men that don't pay that much attention to that kind of stuff. They don't gibe a fuck about that. As long as you don't have the overall appearance of looking dirty or unapproachable, then it ain't an issue. Guess what? I question that shit. Of course, fake nails and nail polish hide this sort of thing, and most people think of this sort of thing to be ridiculous. Who gives a fuck about that kind of shit? I do. Why? Clean nails most often equals clean hands and clean bodies of people that are consceince of germs and bacteria. That is why I pay attention to that. The site of dirt in nails is horrid to me. Now let me put something else out there: I do not get regular manicures. No I do not pay a person to file and clean my nails because I can do that myself, and I do. May not be as good but it is done to my satisfaction and I believe I have been doing a good job at it. Here's a question that comes to mind: what about feet? Personally I don't like feet. Unless it's summertime and they have good looking feet, I am going to want a person to wear socks around me anyway, but I do enjoy pedis and I take care of my toe nails just as much as I take care of my fingernails. I wear socks all the time, but I make sure my nails are as clean as possible. All of them! I won't too much into that but I will say that females have to be more better at this as well. Fellas it is okay to get a manicure. It does make you gay and all that shit. It just means you are taking that extra step to having clean nails. I have seen some of the best nails on men and some of the absolute worst on women. It is possible people. Take care of your nails. Wash your hands regularly. Clean the dirt out when you get the chance to. Please refrain from touching somebody's exposed body parts with dirty hands. Oh and please don't think you will get anywhere near my food. Umm fuck no I dont play those kind of games. I am good on that shit! Having clean hands and nails is good hygiene. If you dont want to clean your nails, pay somebody to do it for you or request that somebody handles that on your behalf. Wash ya hands regularly and when you do clean under your nails in the process. If you don't know proper handwashing procedures, look it up in YouTube. I'm sure there is a video for it. Even if you don't wash yo ass regularly (oh boy I am going the fuck in on that post), at least clean hands and nails will trick a mutha fucka into thinking you do. I am not just saying this because of personal preference. I am just giving a little word of advice. Dont think I know what I am talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

Dress Attire

The discussion that has been had amongst friends, both young and old, is what is wrong with people and the way they dress these days. Some of this stuff that is out there is just that, out there. What I am wondering about is what's up with these females that believe wearing something two sizes too small from them is okay and these dudes that believe that sagging skinny jeans is the way to go with their wardrobe. I mean seriously? A dude tried to talk to me wearing skinny jeans and I thought it was horrid. I laughed at him and kept it moving. Women: we have to do better with the fit of our colthing. Yes something can fit without being tight. I mean really though? If it is clear that you are not a size 12, don't put on that when you know you are a 18. We see you and we know that ain't right. Oh and just because it is in your size don't mean it look good on you. I really get irked when I see muffin tops and incorrect usage of clothes. Its not attarctive. Males: if I can see yo draws, I will refrain from giving you attention. That is not the move. I'm too old to think that is even remotely cute. Also, skinny jeans are not to be worn by any male PERIOD! I don't care what you tell me or how much many and fame you got. Its not cool. And yes I can tell the difference between straight leg and skinny baby. You ain't fooling anybody. To both sexes: if you look in the mirror and something doesn't seem right, make a change or ask a friend. Strong word of advice: please let your friends know when something does not look right on them. It is not okay to let your friends walk around looking all kinds of wrong period. Yes feelings might get hurt but at least they will not be embarrassed. Trust me when I say I will not go anywhere with anybody if I feel their outfit is not working. Oh and stop wearing your pajamas to the store. I don't give a fuck how long you gonna be in there. Put some damn clothes on or don't walk out the door unless you driving and don't plan to get out the car. Dress according to the weather. If it is February and it is 80° (yes this is possible) it is okay to dress accordingly, but please don't have on shorts in 50° weather with wind chills. Yeah I have seen it. Fellas, sagging shorts DOES NOT substitute for pants. I swear that irks me to the fullest. Putting your hands in your shirt does not substitute for a coat. Check weather reports as often as you can people and always be prepared for the unexpected because sometimes these weather people be wrong as shit. Am I saying carry a jacket around in the summer time? No but you might want to have some sort of rain gear in the case of unexpected showers. I know an umbrella goes everywhere I go. Dress for the occasion. A freak'em dress to the movies is just as wrong as a T-shirt and shorts to a job interview. Yes I have seen both and worse. Oh you thought I forgot about kids? Not by a long shot. Parents, dress your children correctly and in the right stuff. Your child or children needs to look as good as you or better. I want to sleep the shit out of these people I see with their kids looking ridiculous but they look as if they are fresh off a photo shoot. Really though? Somebody please pass me the number to DFACS. I can't take it. That doesn't irk me. That pisses me off. Also, let yo kids be kids and be themselves, but please make them dress for the weather and for the activities they are going to engage in as well. I am not a parent. This is true, but I know what is right and what is wrong on a child. It doesn't take having one to see that. I used to be a baby, a child, a tween, and a teenager. I am not just saying these things people. This is not coming from just anywhere and none of this has been fabricated so that I can make my point. To that chick that walked into that juniors store and said they are discriminating because there was nothing there in your size, this is dedicated to you. Please go shop somehwere that carries your correct size and stop trying to fit into a size you ain't worn since 5th grade. I can say this. I have been a size 16 since I was in 7th grade. It is possible and I do look good in my clothes. All I am saying is this: be comfortable but be correct in what you wear. If it doesn't look or feel right, its probably not. Do yourself a favor and change it. Please listen to those that are trying to advise you on what to put on, but also be aware of how this person or these people dress as well. I am all up for individualilty and not following trends, but there are some things that are just not okay by any means. Know your stuff people. Don't think I know what I am talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

Let Me Do It or Do It Yourself

As I sit here and I bounce to the random songs that my iTunes is playing, I think about something that is truly random at the moment but not that random: don't you dislike it when people ask you to do something but then they want to tell you how to do it their way and shit? I will give an example. You are asked to cook dinner by your significant other, and you accept. It's dinner. You can handle that. He or she wants something simple, like baked chicken, rice and gravy. You like cool that can work, I can work that out. You proceed to the kitchen only to see this mutha fucka all over your shoulder looking at your every move. He or she telling you what to do with the chicken, how to season shit, how high or low the water should be for the rice, etc., etc. "Why don't you wash the dishes as you go along?" "Use the other kind of rice. I like that more." "You sure you want gravy." Man you wanted this shit a certain way, why yo ass ain't this kitchen cooking this shit? I mean really? You wanna be lazy tonight but want to tell me how you wanna do shit. If you gonna ask me to do something, let me fucken do it the way that I want to do it at the pace that I want to do it. Please do not be all in my face or all down my throat or all on my ass about something that you asked me to do. Remind yourself that I am doing something you asked me to do, not the other way around. I mean fa real shawty? Sit the fuck down with all that extra shit! If you don't trust me enough to do a good job or the way that you want it done, simply don't ask me to do it. I mean shit. Oh and keep all attitude and side comments to yourself if shit is not getting done the way you want it. That shit is a serious pet peeve of mine and pisses me off quick, fast, and in a fucken hurry. I strongly dislike that shit. Do the shit yourself if you going to be that picky or particular about shit. Appreciate the fact that the person was nice enough to do the shit for you in the first place, and correct them only when necessary, i.e. they are putting up a ladder and its not getting done right. That's a safety hazard. Somebody can get hurt. Correct them then. Don't just be doing the shit because that is how you want shit to be. If you got a list of guidelines of what is being done, you need to be paying someone to do that shit for you. Don't ask somebody to do something for you for free and be an ass about it. Oh and don't think because you threw money in the equation that it gives you the right to be an ass because it doesn't, but it does give you more right to have something done the way that you want it done. Don't ask me to do a damn thing if all you going to do is criticize me and judge the way that I am doing what you asked because that shit is annoying. If you want it to be done a certain way, state that in the beginning so that there is less of a hassle when it is done. I can actually deal with that more than you waiting til I am trying to complete that task and telling me how wrong I am when I am doing it. I don't care if it is as simple as screwing in a light bulb. If you ask me to do it, let me handle it. Point I'm trying to make: let me handle something that you have asked me to do the way that I want to do it or just do the shit yourself. It is that simple. Appreciate the fact that I am actually handling something that you asked me to do for you, and don't take it for granted. Remember, I didn't have to do that shit in the first place. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

Good Men and Women Still Exist

I tell you, the conversations that I have had with friends over the years have stuck to me like my skin to my bones. For the longest I have heard my single friends come to me and say that there ain't any good men or women out there and if they do exist they are already taken. I will tell you the same thing I told them: that's bullshit. You just have to find one. Single women, I will address you first. There are plenty of good single men out there in the world for you to find and date and shit. No all men are not the same and all are not to fuck and leave. Please stop saying that shit, or at least don't say that shit to me. I do believe it nor do I want to hear it. Evaluate your personality, attitude, and personal beliefs before you give a man the time of day because there could be a good man in front of your face and you would kill that shit with the way you treat him and waiting for him to fuck up. Single mena and lesbians, there are good women out there that are not filled with drama or only want to dip in your pocket. Trust me when I say there are women that are willing to treat you like the king (or queen) that you are because you have decided to be a part of their life. Do not approach every woman with a divide and conquer attitude either. Most women are not with that shit. Communication baby. It is the foundation to everything having to do with significant others and romantic relationships. Hell it's the foundation for everything period. Try to get to know a person if you gonna judge them. Every woman ain't a gold digging bitch, and every male ain't a dog ass mutha fucka. Once we quit treating each other as such, then there will be more good men and women around for the picking. Get yourself in check before you pass judgement and don't believe the societal bullshit that swarms around you. Otherwise you are going to be a lonely mutha fucka for the rest of your life. There are.good ones still out there. They are all around you. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

The Vajaja Won't Keep Him

Okay here's the deal: I am about to be 25 in a month and ever since I was in high school, I have been hearing females claim that their "stuff" is so good that it can change any man and put him in his place. They say shit like "with this pussy he will never stray" and stupid shit like that. They really believe that the vagina they giving away is keeping money coming out his pocket, him from cheating, and his eyes to himself. "My man will never do that. The pussy is too good to him." Newsflash: he can and he has. To the females of the world that think their pussy is so great no man that touches it would want another, I like your confidence but please bring yo ass down from that high ass horse yo ass is sitting on. There is not a woman on earth that can keep their significant other from cheating or leaving if they want to. Guess what? Shit happens. Now I'm not saying these aren't stupid for doing the shit. I give no defence for those that are wrong, and this is way I am putting you ridiculous females out there that believe that dumb shit on blast. Yeah yo vajaja could be great, but if the actual sex act ain't on point, he or she will find someone that can get the job done. Ain't nothing wrong with saying that its good. I say it from time to time because that is what I have been told, but I know it won't keep a person there. If he or she wants to leave, the door is open and there is nothing that is going to keep he or she from walking through it but personal choice. They not sticking wit yo conceded ass because ya pussy is just the bomb and shit. They are doing it because they see something in you that is worth more than that to them. I can't deal with that kind of attitude. What created it? The right man or woman told them their vajaja is just that good, and it stuck ever since. Guess what darling? There is one out there that is better and belongs to a more quality woman. Betting yo life in it? Plan ya funeral in the process. Some men out there ain't any better. "Man shit all I gotta do is put this dick down and she is done. No man stands a chance against Mandango." Really? Personal experience: that shit ain't true. I have turned and shut down what I consider some of the best because of other reasons. Oh you think cuz you put it down I'm going to be stalking you and wanting a relationship and all in yo face and all on you like white in rice? That I won't step out on you or even look at another? Lmao let me stop laughing real quick. You out yo fucken mind! I explore all other factors about you before I even make silly decisions like that. How good you are in bed means nothing to me if you disrespect me or treat me like I'm nothing. Being another notch on your belt ain't an honor for me boo boo, so don't you ever think that I am going to praise it by stroking yo ego just so I can be left with a wide open nose and hurt feelings. It ain't that serious sweetie. I've had better. Is it true? It might be. Just know there is always somebody better out there, no matter what we talking about. My point: don't think because you giving it up that this person is going to be so caught up in it that he or she going to do what you want when you want and never going to leave ya side. If that is the case, cheating wouldn't go on at such high rates. Don't think its going to work? Having doubts? Keep yo dick in your pants or your legs closed, whichever one applies to you. Everything comes down to personal choice. If that person chooses to do so, then that's it. There is nothing your genitalia is going to do about that. Better pick up some other skills and a better personality becauase the competition out there shows no mercy. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

Everything Ain't For Everybody

So I was chatting with a close friend this morning, and he told me that he was watching Pinky's music video. Yes Pinky the porn star Pinky. Now I have no problem with Pinky's work. As a matter of fact, I love her videos and such, but I have seen only one minute of that music video he is referring to, Bad Bitch. I know there are more by her, but I don't support any of that. Why? Because to me she is not a good music artist. I think her rapping is not good at all, and she needs to stick to shaking her ass and getting butt naked on film. Yes I said it. For those of you that think I am being negative or whatnot, watch the video for yourself and see what you think. This is my opinion, and my opinion is that she needs to stick to what she know and that is working in the porn industry and making appearances. Rapping ain't for her. As a matter of fact, it ain't for any porn star. Brian Pumper ain't an exception either. Yes I think his music sucks too and I have heard more than one song by him in their entirety. I do recognize and applaud them for the effort that they put in so that they can do more than just get naked in flicks, but they are not good at this. I'm sorry, but I am going to have to say that some people need to learn that everything ain't for everybody. Everybody can't make it in the music industry. Yeah I give support to what I think is good, and that shit ain't good. There are people out now that I think are annoying and terrible but make great music for when I'm drunk and at the club, and I haven't been to a club in what is now a couple almost three years, so that says a lot. I can't deal. Everybody can't go from one industry to the next. It doesn't work for everyone. Yes there are some athletes that can act. Yes there are some actors and actresses that can sing and dance. Not everybody can do it, and just because you have the money to do it does not mean you need to do it. I mean that. Just because you are rich or have the money to afford to make ventures like this does not mean you need to do it. Yeah they have the money to get the studio time and make the videos and whatnot, but that does not mean that they should get the green light to do it. The first time I saw that shit, I was like what the fuck is this? Some people need to know how to stay in their lane. This goes for everything. I have heard some women say that they can do shit because a man does it. It ain't for you, sweetie. Just because that dude is running around scratching at his genitals and spitting everywhere don't give you the green light to do it. I have also heard the reverse. That's right. I have heard men say they can do some shit because females do it, i.e. being extra emotional and crying about everything. That shit ain't okay either. Like I said before, some people need to know how to stay in their lane. All entertainment ain't the same, and just because you good at one form don't mean you going to be the shit at another. I'm sitting here wondering how people made to where they are right now because I think their shit is crappy. But hey what do I know? I am just a fan of music, movies, television, sports, and books, most of the forms of entertainment on this Earth. Now I know people that are great at a lot of things, but they do not try to do some shit they know is not for them. I am going to tell you when something is bad. I mean you will get my initial support until I believe that what you doing ain't for you, then I will tell you. Yeah I don't try to act, rap, sing, or dance, but I know this stuff ain't for me. Know your strengths and weaknesses. If you are good at more than one thing, then I definitely will applaud you and such, but that ain't always the case. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...