Yeah You Know You Said It

You at work. You have been told that it has been voiced that you are not working like everyone expects you to do. Somebody has been saying that you don't do shit but sit around until it is time for you to go. You know this shit is not true by any means, but you really want to know who has been spreading these false lies about you. Finally, you find out who did it. You confront this person, and what do they do? They don't have anything to say to you, and then they have the nerve to be more mad than you are. Excuse me mutha fucka, but what the fuck do you have to be mad about? You the one that was sitting here talking all kinds of mad shit to the managers about me, and now you have the audacity to get mad and shit when I confront you about it? Are you fucken serious? Sit down! If you know you are doing this shit, just say, "yeah I said it" and keep it moving. Of course, the person that is confronting you about is gonna want to know why it is that you are saying this shit, but it is up to you to make the decision to talk to them about it or not. My strong suggestion: don't say anything about a person behind their back that you can't say to their face. I mean, this was some real bitch nigga shit. I mean for real? You gonna lie on me and then bitch up when I come to you about it? Let me inform the masses that I am not talking about females here. I am talking about what is supposed to be a grown ass man lying on a real grown ass man. Word? What the fuck is the purpose in this fuckery? Let me explain something to those that thinks shit likes this is okay: it gets you nowhere. Managers may promote telling on people, but they don't really like it. You will be forever labeled as the snitch, and no one is gonna be around you or talk to you. You will not get promoted or be in the good graces of any manager or supervisor because of it, and they will not be your friend. Oh and please believe if htey find out you are lying, you just put your job at jeopardy if you don't lose the shit. Now, if you are just a vindictive mutha fucka and don't give a fuck about any of that shit, do what you do, but if you gonna do it, at least have the decency to tell the truth. I mean seriously. Why the fuck do you feel like you have to lie? That is fucken ridiculous. This does not just apply to work. This applies to everything in life. It will never save you from anything or preserve a damn thing. If you said it, then you said it. Don't matter the reason why you said it, even though that will come in handy if you decide to explain why you said it. If you doing ridiculous shit like that, then be grown about it and admit to it. Yeah I said it. I did that. Don't be loud about it or yell or decide this is the time to be Billy Bad Ass because that shit is not only unnecessary but also something you don't have the right to even think of doing. Be prepared to have an angry mutha fucka in your face if you running around lying on them and telling on them like a 5-year-old child. When I am angry, I say shit that is utterly ridiculous but it comes out of pure emotion. Once, I was confronted about it. I owned up to it. Yeah I said that. Done deal. That is what needs to happen. There are consequences to this, but if it wasn't said in the first place, then this kind of shit wouldn't happen. Case in point: don't say shit about someone that you don't want coming back up later. You gonna pull some shit like that to anyone, then you best to be prepared to have a conversation later about it. Don't be a bitch. It's not a good look. Yes that applies to females too. Gender does not ever play a factor. Age don't either. This is a public service announcement. Don't think you know what I'm talking about? Hey man..I'm just saying...

Cuddling & Affection vs. Sex

Okay, so today's blog comes from a conversation that I was having with this guy earlier today, and we were just having a regular conversation. He don't know me, and he thinks that it's okay to offer to lick my body and taste me. Umm no sir that is not what I want. I explain to him that I don't want him to do all that and that is not what I am looking for, but he just couldn't comprehend how I can want to cuddle and be affectionate with a person and not want to have sex with that person. This mutha fucka asked me to define cuddling and affection. I'm sorry sir, how old are you? With two kids right? And you don't understand what I mean when I say cuddling and affection. People, just because a person wants to cuddle and be affectionate does not mean they want to have sex. I am not fucking you so that you can hold me at night. I don't want to be in a relationship either. There are plenty of people out there that are single but are affectionate. There are plenty of people that knows what it is like to have affection with there being no strings attached. No titles, no dating, nothing more than just cuddling and talking. That is not difficult or too much to ask for. I mean really? Why do I have to explain to you what cuddling and affection is? Why there have to be feelings involved? Better question: is it really necessary to fuck you in order to get it? No I don't think so. You have lost your fucken mind to think that I will buss it open for a few kisses and some arms around my body at night. I'm good. If you are so much of a horny little boy that you can't keep your hands to yourself, then I don't want to deal with it. If I do fuck you, it's because I have made the decision to do so. I'm old enough to change my mind and make decisions. I'm more than a big girl. I'm a woman. It's funny because only females understand this but are just as emotionally out of it. Let it put it to you like this: affection and cuddling can be done without sex being involved. At times, yes they do go hand in hand, but they do not have to happen together. THEY ARE NOT THE SAME THING! I repeat, THEY ARE NOT THE SAME THING! Yes it is possible for a person to kiss and touch a little and cuddle and spoon and whatever else falls under that category without it leading to a butt naked session. Seriously people, if you ain't old enough to separate the two, how will you survive in a relationship? What is going to happen when your significant other ain't in the mood to fuck? Then what? All they want to do is cuddle or be held. You going to go fuck somebody else? You going to get mad and storm out? Be a child about the situation if you feel like it. You going to be by your damn self. All I'm saying is this: I should not have to explain to what is supposed to be a grown ass person the difference between sex and affection. If you don't know that all ready, then I don't know what to say to you. If you can't do that without an established relationship, then so be it. I won't get mad. I won't throw a fit. I will find somebody that is capable and willing to do so. It is not that serious to be doing stupid shit in order to get what I want. People, know what you want and if you know what you want, go out and get it, but things like this are unnecessary to me. There is a difference between cuddling & affection and sex. If you don't know it, you need to learn it. Don't think I don't know what I'm talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...