Everything Ain't For Everybody

So I was chatting with a close friend this morning, and he told me that he was watching Pinky's music video. Yes Pinky the porn star Pinky. Now I have no problem with Pinky's work. As a matter of fact, I love her videos and such, but I have seen only one minute of that music video he is referring to, Bad Bitch. I know there are more by her, but I don't support any of that. Why? Because to me she is not a good music artist. I think her rapping is not good at all, and she needs to stick to shaking her ass and getting butt naked on film. Yes I said it. For those of you that think I am being negative or whatnot, watch the video for yourself and see what you think. This is my opinion, and my opinion is that she needs to stick to what she know and that is working in the porn industry and making appearances. Rapping ain't for her. As a matter of fact, it ain't for any porn star. Brian Pumper ain't an exception either. Yes I think his music sucks too and I have heard more than one song by him in their entirety. I do recognize and applaud them for the effort that they put in so that they can do more than just get naked in flicks, but they are not good at this. I'm sorry, but I am going to have to say that some people need to learn that everything ain't for everybody. Everybody can't make it in the music industry. Yeah I give support to what I think is good, and that shit ain't good. There are people out now that I think are annoying and terrible but make great music for when I'm drunk and at the club, and I haven't been to a club in what is now a couple almost three years, so that says a lot. I can't deal. Everybody can't go from one industry to the next. It doesn't work for everyone. Yes there are some athletes that can act. Yes there are some actors and actresses that can sing and dance. Not everybody can do it, and just because you have the money to do it does not mean you need to do it. I mean that. Just because you are rich or have the money to afford to make ventures like this does not mean you need to do it. Yeah they have the money to get the studio time and make the videos and whatnot, but that does not mean that they should get the green light to do it. The first time I saw that shit, I was like what the fuck is this? Some people need to know how to stay in their lane. This goes for everything. I have heard some women say that they can do shit because a man does it. It ain't for you, sweetie. Just because that dude is running around scratching at his genitals and spitting everywhere don't give you the green light to do it. I have also heard the reverse. That's right. I have heard men say they can do some shit because females do it, i.e. being extra emotional and crying about everything. That shit ain't okay either. Like I said before, some people need to know how to stay in their lane. All entertainment ain't the same, and just because you good at one form don't mean you going to be the shit at another. I'm sitting here wondering how people made to where they are right now because I think their shit is crappy. But hey what do I know? I am just a fan of music, movies, television, sports, and books, most of the forms of entertainment on this Earth. Now I know people that are great at a lot of things, but they do not try to do some shit they know is not for them. I am going to tell you when something is bad. I mean you will get my initial support until I believe that what you doing ain't for you, then I will tell you. Yeah I don't try to act, rap, sing, or dance, but I know this stuff ain't for me. Know your strengths and weaknesses. If you are good at more than one thing, then I definitely will applaud you and such, but that ain't always the case. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

Oh So Now You A Fan?

This past weekend was the first weekend of the NFL Playoffs. The Wild Card games were played, and four losses happened. One just happened to be my team, the Atlanta Falcons. Anybody that knows me knows that I am a die hard Falcons fan and will be til the day I die. Even though I am not originally from Atlanta, I have always been a fan of the Red and Black. My very first football game was the Falcons against the Detroit Lions in the Pontiac Silverdome when I was in the 4th grade, and the Falcons kicked ass. I never forgot that memory when I moved to Atlanta a year or so later, and I have always cheered for my boys since then. According to some people, I shouldn't be a Falcons fan. I shouldn't be a fan because I'm not from Atlanta originally. I shouldn't be a fan because they suck. I shouldn't be a fan because they are just not the team that is going to do it. I have heard stats, moments, and observations that have been used in arguments to why my team is just not the team to cheer for. Make no mistake about it, I cheer for a true underdog at times, and you know what? That will NEVER change. Yes I love my boys, and I refuse to be a all-of-a-sudden die hard fan of any other PERIOD! Yes there are other teams that get my support every once in a while, and there are other teams that I enjoy watching, but the only team that I am a true blue fan of is the Falcons and a couple of college teams, the Michigan Wolverines and the GA Southern Eagles. What does this mean? These are the only teams that ignite an emotion in me when I watch them play and they are mentioned. Everybody is entitled to their opinion, and you don't have to cheer for my team, but don't be a bandwagoner. What do I mean? Don't be a fan of one team and when they don't do what you want, i.e. make it to the playoffs or win a certain amount of games, you ain't a fan no more and become a huge and unprecedented fan of another. Really? You just a fan for them because they winning. You ain't fooling me. I know die hard fans of teams that have had it hard all season, and they ain't walking around deciding that another team is now "their team". Don't understand what I'm saying? I will use the game from Sunday. I haven't seen so many people that were all-of-a-sudden Giants fans until Sunday. I'm not just talking about the people that cheer for the team because they like them. No I mean these people have gone as far as to sit there and claim them as "their team," posting their team logo as a profile picture and putting up statuses and all in my face talking shit. I know bandwagoners, and that shit ain't cool. Their opinion matters less because I know they wasn't a fan of the team that they are defending so fucken hard last week but they are this week. Get the fuck outta here! And then I was told that I need to change teams because mines suck. I take this as just trash talk coming from another football fan, and I respected and joked with him and talked shit back as well. That is what sports fans do, if you are a real sports fan. Don't talk shit to me when I know you don't watch football at all. Your opinion does not matter at all. I mean I don't give a fuck what you have to say because I know you wasn't watching until my team hit the screen and you just trying to piss me off. You headed down the right road. Don't be a fan when the playoffs come around. I know people that talk shit all year but won't sit down to watch one game until playoffs come and then don't even watch all of that. Really mutha fucka? Sit yo ass down. To all the women out there that thinks it is okay to be a fan of football around playoff time because yo man or the one you want is watching, sit yo ass down. That shit ain't attractive, and he can see right through yo bullshit. I hang around real fans that are watching and can follow the game fairly well, and yes they have a team they are fans of. Guess what? They are not all male, so please don't tell me I'm one of those chicks that don't know what the fuck is going on but is watching because I know men love it. I'm not. I may not know stats by heart and all that, but I am a football fan, and I love it. If I could find out when the tryouts are for a women's league, I would try and play. No bullshit. Don't be a fan out of no where, and don't pick your teams because of records. If your team has a losing record that year, don't move to one with a winning record and keep changing because the team you picked loses. Man you are an embarrassment to sports fans everywhere. Oh and this goes for any sport, even though the only sport I have a team for is football. Falcons fan. Georgia Southern Eagles fan. Michigan Wolverines fan. That is all. I cheer for other teams at times, but when it comes down to playing my team, they take a backseat quick. I have good sportsmanship for those that also exhibit good sportsmanship. I know bandwagonersBandwagoner. I told him not to talk to me unless it has to do with work. Can't deal with that fuckery. I am willing to talk shit all day with real sports fans, even if I am pissed after a loss. It is all fun and games when you talking about your team, but if you just hating and just want to see my team lose for no fucken reason, shut the fuck up. Also, don't be like "yeah I'm behind this team" one day and then be like "yeah I am definitely with such and such" because yo team didn't get the job done. That's bullshit. I have decided to watch the rest of the playoffs here and there, and I do enjoy watching the Ravens play, but make no mistake about it. I am only a fan of the Falcons when it comes to professional football, period. If you wasn't a fan before, don't be a fan now. If you decide to do that shit, don't talk to me about it because I will point that out to you. It's whatever though. Do you. Just don't do that shit around me. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

Age and Maturity Are Not on the Same Page

Hello everyone. Sigh...I take a deep breath because I really need to calm my nerves a little bit before I start this post out. (takes deep breath) Okay, I can do this.

People of the world that have decided to read this, I have taken it upon myself to bring up something that has been said to me and others on numerous occasions for numerous reasons. Maturity is supposed to increase and grow along with age, but this is only in a perfect world. In reality, we all know the truth, and the truth is that maturity does not increase with age. As a matter of fact, they are not even on the same page. Apparently, women are supposed to mature faster than men, but I can't lie: sometimes, I really don't see that shit. As you are supposed to mature with age, I know more than a few people that are older than me by years and are way less mature than myself, and I'm 24, so that says alot. For example, I was asked am I going to stop acting like a bitch and respond by this guy that I have not said a word to in months. Excuse me sir, but you are damn near 30. Is that really necessary? I mean why can't you just accept the fact that I don't want to talk to you and go on about your life? I don't want you, and your advances are not even on an adult level. Every time I read a message from this person, I feel like I'm being hit up by a high school boy. Are you serious? Like stop this shit. Maturity would have stopped him from acting like that, but obviously that is something that he lacks. Yes, I have had childish moments, and at times, I still do, but I have also gained a lot of maturity. How do I know? Had this been a couple of years ago, I would have went the fuck off and cussed that ass completely out for that message. That is what I used to do. Key word: USED! I don't react like that anymore unless it is really warranted, but that is not something to warrant that kind of response. I'm grown. Don't talk to me that way. There is ways of talking to people other than using curse words and yelling. Cursing someone out over the littlest or most obvious shit is something meant for teenagers. Yelling is something kids do. Sit the fuck down, sir. Another example: dude hit me up after not talking to me for a month and thought that I would still be interested in meeting him, like I am just sitting around and waiting on his phone call or something. I have a life buddy, and damn sure doesn't revolve around you. Smh...and he is way older than me. C'mon man! First I get a hissy fit from what is supposed to be a grown ass man and now you coming at me like I am supposed to just drop everything that I'm doing and cater to you? I don't know you! People, if someone you trying to get at don't say a word to yo ass, give up. Let the shit go, especially if you have had no prior relationship with this person, and no fucking does not count. Maturity. If you are mature enough to do it, you will walk away from the situation and let it be. Cursing out the chick that walked past you on the street ain't going to get you anywhere. Sending crazy ass messages to a dude's Facebook is not going to get you anywhere with him. I dislike childish mutha fuckas. People that like making scenes and doing stupid shit they know is wrong and acting out at the drop of a dime. ENOUGH ALREADY! Sorry I'm getting loud. Okay, I'm good. Just because a person is at the age of being an adult does not mean that he or she is in the mental mind state of an adult. I have met a 40 year old that acts like he is 20. Excuse me sir, act your age. People say that shit, but sometimes you don't want that because the majority of the people that may be their age don't act right either. Maturity comes with growth. If you ain't growing as a person, then you are going to continue to act like a child. He obviously has not had any growth because he still acts the same way that he did when I met him years ago. Again I'm 24. Met him when I was 18. I have grown. What is his excuse? Reading this post, if you have read some of my others, then you will notice that I have toned down my cursing in this one. Maturity. I don't have to talk this way, but if you know me, then you know this is how I speak. It's me. Yeah you can do you, but you have to know how to react to situations and how to deal with certain things in an adult matter if you are of adult age. Hell, once you hit high school, that is when I expect for your maturity to begin. I'm just saying. When you get to college, you damn sure need to start gaining some maturity. You know when your maturity really kicks in? When you are doing 80% of the things you need to do for yourself by yourself. Childish is never a good look, and throwing a tantrum like a child just make you look as such. It's not cute. It's not attractive. You will not get good responses like that. Act your age. Period. Don't know how to do that? Develop the mind set of someone older. Only around other childish people? Create a new circlefuckery. Anyway, my point is this: don't assume a person is mature because of their age. Their age don't mean shit compared to their mental state of mind. I have met plenty of people that are years and years older than me and still act like they in high school. I'm sorry, but you have to give the fucking bitches and getting money mentality after the age of 40. You gotta want more for your life than that. Some of my previous posts have pointed out immature people. I just believe that there are ways to handle things in a mature matter. Your age does not matter, and the situation doesn't either. Take that into consideration the next time you decide to cuss somebody out over something petty. See how good you feel after the fact. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...

Forever Lazy, Never Grown

This is my first post of the new year, and I felt that starting it off with this topic was highly appropriate since there is so many people that are talking about what they are going to do this year and what they are going to change and so on and so forth. I also saw a commercial for what I consider to be the most ridiculous and brilliant invention right now: the Forever Lazy. To me, this clothing is nothing but a body Snuggie with no feet at the bottom and a butt flap for when you have to use the bathroom. Oh it is designed to be lazy all right, and there are going to be enough of these sold to keep this product going for a while, but I am fully against buying and owning one of these. I will not be giving it as a gift, I will not be having on in my closet, and I will not be talking to anybody that decides having one of these is okay. Why? Because being lazy is unacceptable, period. I don't care how old you are. Once you become of age to do things for yourself and you have the mental and physical capability to do so, then being lazy is not tolerated. Now, lounging around on your off day or down time is one thing. That is not being lazy. That is relaxing. Vacation time is not being lazy. It is used to relax and rest plus engage in activities that cannot be done during the regular routine. Again, not being lazy. Now, for those that do nothing with their day but sit around and lounge and do nothing productive or of any importance to help or contribute to their situation, they are lazy. Play PlayStation all day every day? Lazy. Always downtown hanging out with no job or school going on? Lazy. Don't even have a side hustle to make money or doing anything to better yourself? LAZY! Yes I said it, and I will say it again. Nobody around me is lazy by any means. Everybody around me works, goes to school, does both, or is trying to do one or the other. Hell I have people around me that are not doing either one and is trying to do both. They still get money. They still do things that are productive. They still take care of themselves to make their situation better and strive to have and do more than what they already have going on. They have goals, dreams, and plans with the ambition to get shit done and do things that they want to do plus the motivation to get up and try to get it done and executed. These are the type of people that I know and surround myself with. I can't stand a lazy mutha fucka for anything in the world. I really can't. Please do not tell me you are a grown ass anything and you don't have shit going on in life. Don't work. Don't go to school. No part time. No side hustle. Nothing? Nah nigga you ain't grown. I will admit that I have just gotten my own health insurance, but that was the last connecting link to my parents. Yes I have the right to say that I'm grown. I have a degree. I have a full time job. I pay rent. I pay bills. I buy the things that I need to survive and find my own way around, but I am not afraid to ask for help when I need it. If I can get it done on my own, I do. What constitutes being grown? In my opinion, it is taking care of yourself if you have the mental and physical ability to do so and not being afraid to ask for help when you need it, to do a good 50-75% for yourself by yourself. That is being grown. We all need help sometimes, and there is nothing wrong with it, but if you looking for a handout, then that is when all this grown shit goes out the window. Ain't nothing in life free, and nothing is going to be handed to you. You got to work for what you want, and sitting on your ass and doing nothing is not the way to get it. You better lit that fire under yo ass and get to it. Ladies and gentlemen that are out there looking for somebody to take care of them, please cut that out. Idk why some people think that finding a significant other to take care of them is the way to live life. No that will not work, and even if you do find somebody to do so, you better not be a lazy mutha fucka for too long because they will get tired of yo ass and leave for someone more productive unless they are just that deseprate. Oh I do not play that shit. I don't help those that don't help themselves. I just don't unless I care that much and they do not have the capability to do something themselves. Other than that, I have nothing for ya. Guess who don't give a fuck? My point is don't be a lazy mutha fucka. It's unattractive, and nobody wants to put up with that. The only people that deal with lazy mutha fuckas for long periods of time are people with large amounts of sympathy and other lazy people. Yeah and even they get tired of that ass eventually. Like that annoying ass dude in the Everest commercial be saying, get up off the couch and do something with ya life. Live everyday to the fullest, but please take care of yourself and do something productive and long lasting in the process. Don't think I know what I'm talking about? Hey man...I'm just saying...